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Signs You Are In An Abusive Relationship:

Do You:

· Feel afraid of your boyfriend or girlfriend?

· Avoid talking about things, or bring up certain topics because you don't want to make him angry?

· Feel that you can't do anything right?

· Believe that you deserve to be hurt of mistreated?

· Wonder if you are the one that is going crazy?

· Feel emotional numb or helpless?

Does Your Partner:

· Act excessively jealous and possessive?

· Control where you go or what you do?

· Try to limit your time with friends or family?

· Constantly have to know where you are, who you are with, and what you are doing?

· Humiliate or embarrass you?

· Yell at you, or use derogatory language?

· Treat you so badly that you are embarrassed for your friends and family to see?

· Blame you for his own abusive behavior?

· Force you to have sex, or to do things you don't want to do?

· Threaten to kill you or to kill himself?

· Ignore your opinions and accomplishments, or put them down?

Dating Bill Of Rights:

I have a right to:

§ Ask for a date

§ Refuse a date

§ Suggest activities

§ Refuse any activities, even

if my date is excited about

them

§ Have my own feelings and

be able to express them

§ Say, “I think my friend is

wrong and his actions

are inappropriate”

§ Tell someone not to

interrupt me

§ Have my limits and values

respected

§ Tell my partner when I need

affection

§ Refuse affection

§ Be heard

§ Refuse to lend money

§ Refuse sex any time,

for any reason

§ Have friends and space

aside from my partner

I have the

responsibility to:

§ Determine my limits

and values

§ Respect the limits of others

§ Communicate clearly

and honestly

§ Not violate the limits of others

§ Ask for help when I need it

§ Be considerate

§ Check my actions and

decisions to determine

whether they are good

or bad for me

§ Set high goals for myself

From the Domestic Violence Advocacy

Program of Family Resources, Inc.

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But I Love Him!

What About The Girl I Used To Be? When Do I Get Her Back?

Warning Signs of Abusive Behavior

Am I In An Abusive Relationship?

How Do I Get Out?

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